There are many individuals of influence walking the streets, sitting in boardrooms, enacting legislation, teaching our children or interacting within culture in a multitude of ways. Many of these leaders are wearing masks hiding various types of prejudice. Prejudice is simply pre-judgment as assumptions are made without accurate information; opinions are formed without facts and beliefs are established without truth. All prejudice is destructive fear-based attitude that affects relationships, partnerships and sabotages the ability to lead with justice, honor, and validation.<\/span><\/p>\n

There is great power and responsibility associated with any form of leadership influence. Whether you are a school student influencing your peers, a friend, spouse, parent, teacher, actor, sports figure, business person, or political leader, there is a vital mandate to lead impartially. Anywhere there is a platform of influence there is ability to persuade for good or harm. <\/span><\/p>\n

We all have had negative experiences that want to shape our belief about different groups of people whether it is age, race, gender, socio-economic status, or position in society. Our tendency is to group people together and pre-judge everyone based upon the external, the judgments of others or our personal history. Many years ago I was an indignantly passionate man-hater supporting the woman\u2019s liberation movement. To me it was not about equal rights for women\u2014that was my mask\u2014but rather to emerge greater than all men. This was prejudice that was seeded into the soil of a little girl\u2019s soul through sexual molestation. In my heart I was not fighting for the noble cause of equality for woman, I was thirsty for the injury of all men believing they were all perpetrators. <\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201cEach person is an individual\u2014it is unfair to judge someone through your past experiences with others.\u201d Dr. Melodye Hilton<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Every type of prejudice, bias or racism is self-sabotage! \u00a0I was horribly deceived by the pain of my past which sabotaged my emotional health and my ability to find internal peace. Thank God those days are over!!!!! \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Scientifically speaking, every thought we accept grows memory within the neuro-networking of our brain. It is impossible to devalue, hate, disrespect, degrade, or demonstrate prejudice towards another without its feedback into our own memory. Whether our prejudicial actions are obvious, subtle, or just a part of our thought processes it is ultimately self-destructive. It is time to remove the mask of outward pretense and arise with genuine validation for one another! It is impossible to be critical, judgmental, unforgiving, or gossip when we walk in validation and honor of others. <\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201cThe validation of the human soul cannot co-exist with prejudice, injustice or discrimination of any kind.\u201d Dr. Melodye Hilton<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Thomas Jefferson said, \u201cThe care of human life and happiness, and not their destruction, is the first and only objective of good government.\u201d Truly, this should be the objective of every good person and especially everyone who aspires to lead well. Let us challenge ourselves to take into account the thoughts we allow to occupy our minds and boldly choose validation, honor, respect, life, hope, and peace. This decision will not only impact our own emotional health, but allow a healthy perspective in every decision we make. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s time to take off all masks of pretense and instead genuinely value all humanity. Let us utilize our emotional energies to influence generations to live well, love much, and believe for the best. \u00a0Let our revolutionary voices of validation be heard\u2014that\u2019s a cause worth living for!<\/span><\/p>\n

Dr. Melodye Hilton<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section>\n

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About Dr. Melodye<\/h3>\n<\/div>\n

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Dr. Melodye Hilton works with individuals and workgroups around the globe as a\u00a0 leadership consultant, behavioral analyst, and personal coach. Her recognition extends over all ages, socio-economic, and educational backgrounds through her work in corporate and local business, government, and public and private educational sectors.<\/p>\n

She, alongside her husband, pioneered Giving Light Christian Fellowship in Elizabethville, PA. Over 30 years later, they continue to see God\u2019s hand at work within the vision to \u201cequip all ages to discover destiny and activate purpose for local and global Kingdom impact.\u201d Dr. Melodye is ordained and under the oversight of Christian International Apostolic Network (CIAN) founded by Bishop Bill Hamon. She and her husband, Steven, serve CIAN as regional oversight for the Mid-Atlantic Region, which includes six states and Washington, DC. In 2002, she founded International Training Center<\/i>, which continues to expand with a passion to equip and empower emerging and established leaders.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dr. Melodye travels nationally and internationally ministering, training, consulting, and coaching. She has two grown children and three active grandchildren.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<\/div><\/section><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":19716,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0},"categories":[121],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/old.christianinternational.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15198"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/old.christianinternational.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/old.christianinternational.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/old.christianinternational.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/old.christianinternational.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15198"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/old.christianinternational.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15198\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":19744,"href":"https:\/\/old.christianinternational.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15198\/revisions\/19744"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/old.christianinternational.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19716"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/old.christianinternational.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15198"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/old.christianinternational.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15198"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/old.christianinternational.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15198"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}